Why Everyone Wants To Be With You When You Start Feeling Happy Alone

Look at the sky. We are not alone. The whole universe is friendly to us and conspires only to give the best to those who dream and work.

A. P. J. Abdul Kalam

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You have plenty of time to think.

When we are surrounded by other people, we’re expend a lot of energy because our focus is to keep other  happy, make them laugh have an entertainment , providing them suggestion , and other things that were wasting your time if you think about it.

It drains your precious time if you keep connected to the people a lot. When you are alone it recharges you and provide you the a break from any other little things which never needed your attention.

Express things becomes simple

Life was so messy when i kept around with people , solitude provide me the better understanding of the thinks and definition is clear now and expressing the things become more easier.

Solitude helps a lot if you are a reader, no disturbance is the essentials part for a reader and its helps think more new ideas.

Your EQ increases.

Again, when you’re surrounded by other people all the time, you’re constantly trying to read, and cater to, the other persons’s emotions. So much so, that you could end up losing touch with your own.

When you start to enjoy being alone, you’ll gain a greater perspective for your own emotions. You’ll create a deeper understanding of what makes you happy, what upsets you, and what saddens you.

With that knowledge, it’s then easier to regulate your emotions. But it all starts with understanding how you feel, and that comes from a little bit of solitude.

 You don’t need approval anymore.

Its in our nature to validate our decisions before we act upon it and several times we often neglect the idea. So another benefit for being alone that you start taking decision on our own. You dont need approval anymore.

The fact is you start trusting yourself more than before which is also beneficial for you for the further decision in future. It makes you more confident, you start being happy because you are in harmony.

You enjoy what you do.

When you’re constantly in the company of other people, you’re always making compromises in order to find solutions that the entire group can enjoy. And unfortunately, the things you want most, may not always line up with what the group wants.

So it’s easy to enjoy being alone once you realize that doing so gives you more freedom to do the things you actually want to do.

 You’ll become more productive.

Being in the company of other people can be fun and entertaining, but it can also seriously affect your productivity. There are times when the company of other people acts as nothing more than a distraction from getting your work done.

Time spent alone can be some of the most productive time in your life—mostly because there are less distractions, and you can just put your head down and get to work.

 Makes you feel Independent .

Once you enjoy being alone, you’ll feel more confident in your ability to actually be alone. And that naturally leads to you feeling more independent.

You’ll no longer feel that anxiety, or burning desire for company, once you learn to enjoy being alone. You won’t feel the need for constant interaction with other people, or the anxiety associated with looking around and seeing no one but yourself.

 Relationships becomes more interesting.

When you spend time alone on a regular basis, and eventually start to enjoy being alone, you’ll come to find that you also enjoy your relationships with other people even more.

And that’s because the time spent alone gives you a greater appreciation for yourself.

But it also let’s you appreciate all the great things that come from your relationships with other people, most of which you were oblivious to before.

 Keep other people happy is not your business anymore.

Life is filled with relationships, and most relationships only last when both people are kept happy. And that can turn into a draining job depending who that relationship is with. Now, this does’t only apply to personal relationships, but every kind of relationship.

Once you’re alone, the only person’s happiness you have to worry about in that moment, is your own. You can treat yourself to thing that makes you happy, but may have upset someone else.

 No apology  no regret.

When you start to enjoy being alone, you’ll quickly see that solitude means you don’t have to keep apologizing for what you’ve done. So often, we do things that end up upsetting other people, or hurting someone else’s feelings, and then have to quickly apologize for it.

But when you’re alone, you don’t have to apologize for anything. And that takes a lot of pressure out of most situations. You get to stop second guessing everything you say, or every move you make because you’re afraid someone is going to be offended, or saddened, and angered.

 

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